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It may perhaps be necessary to begin where we are standing and not some abstract idealised place. So I have also taken a little time to frame the goal – at least partially - in more culturally familiar terms – i.e. " What has gone wrong (so we might address it)?"
You don’t actually need to read this part!
Human relationships are better than any amount of medicine, ammunition or the help of others could have done. Once they were recognized, welcomed and made at home in his daily reckoning, he would be reassured, composed and more resolute. And he would come back, tired as he was, night after night, with whatever little of food he had gathered from the desert, eagerly looking forward to seeing those dear, trusting faces, ... asking only that they should open their eyes and show him that the ancient, first look of trust was still there.
The detail of every evening was stored up accordingly in his memory as a new source of wealth and daily he would hasten back, spurred on by a feeling of going "home", however strange it may sound in a desert where no one had a fixed home, where home was not in any given place but in the feeling of being at home anywhere in the universe, by instant right of the fact that one is a child of it and the life it lit on earth.
Laurens van der Post, A Far Off Place, p. 271
Our 21st Century Western techno-industrial society has ended up with many belief systems about how the body-mind works that are incorrect; and has created a physical and social environment vastly different from the one our nervous system evolved in. Its almost as if you buy a new washing machine and the supplied instructions for use lead to a way of operating it that brings about its untimely and unnecessary self-destruction. But with a washing machine it would be more obvious – "This machine works best when standing in six inches of dirty water. Add two large bricks and a handful of screws, nuts and bolts to every load of laundry. If it stops working then hit it with the biggest hammer you can find and stab the control board with a screwdriver".
The net effect is that – relative to our hunter-gatherer ancestors - it is far easier to become both physiologically and psychologically (mentally-emotionally) overwhelmed. And then, starting from that state of overwhelm, far less easy to reset the nervous system back to safety. Although the tendency is to think of trauma with a capital "T" (a major violent incident), trauma as overwhelm occurs all the time when the total instantaneous demands on all of the physical / homeostatic / mental / emotional / immunological (etc.) resources of the body-mind crosses a certain threshold - and momentarily exceeds the person’s available reserves or resilience. It is true that can be caused by one big event. But it happens far more often with an accumulation or combination of relatively small everyday stressors that reduce the spare adaptive resource to critically low levels.
Similarly, dissociation may have a clinical (psychiatric) definition, but it is also a far wider phenomenon that is extensively endemic in Western culture at both clinically recognisable and subclinical (i.e. less visible) levels. We say there is a "problem with embodiment" – meaning that dissociation and disembodiment are rife. Trauma and dissociation both have similar causes, arise in largely overlapping circumstances, and are both usually residual overwhelm adaptations that have not re-normalised to the reality of the present moment. The result is that – for most people walking round in Western society - some parts of the organism of a single human being are adapting to "now", whist others are adapting to "then" (or many "then"s). This fragmented state results in a loss in biological efficiency, a reduction in physical-mental-emotional resilience, and a degradation of sensory capacity along with a subtle but pervasive reduction in quality of relationality and empathy.
What sane person could live in this world and not be crazy?
Ursula K. Le Guin
Many of these stressors are cultural and specific to our Western techno-industrial society at this particular time in history - such that we live in a far more demanding environment than our stone-age ancestors, and have far fewer personal resources and adaptive choices available to deal with them. Probably the beginning of everything was that after a few hundred thousand years walking we reached the edge of the world, and from then on it started to get smaller, more cramped. Faced (from no less than 25,000 years ago) with too many people and insufficient space to hunt and gather in the most fertile parts of the known world, static agriculture started to look like a good thing, which then accumulated its own particular problems.
The stressors faced by many people in the modern developed world that were not present 100,000 years ago include :
All of these factors (more stress mentally, emotionally, immunologically, biochemically etc; less support from extended family and society and societies that metaphorically eat their own children; more baseline inherited stress adaptations and memories; etc.) - mean that overwhelm is a common state.
Once overwhelm occurs, our societal mindsets and lack of understanding of the body (because we have ideas about the body more than relying on positive lived experiences of it) tend to disrupt the evolved pathway that resets us from danger to safety.
Trauma-overwhelm is therefore a societal norm, and therefore largely invisible because it is everywhere, only becoming visible when its degree exceeds our threshold of recognition. Even as far back as the 1950’s Krishnamurti felt the need to say something like :
It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society[14]
Krishnamurti
Heaven knows how much more that is the case today.
Systemic overwhelm that has not reset (by returning to a sense of being safe-enough and in-control-enough) has been recognised and described as "Trauma" since roughly the 1980’s.
Trauma in a person, decontextualised over time, can look like
personality.
Trauma in a family, decontextualised over time, can look like family
traits.
Trauma in a person, decontextualised over time, can look like culture.
Dr. Resmaa Menakem
The effect of overwhelm leading to chronic trauma tends to be – for modern humans - cumulative not just in one lifetime, but across generations, and is endemic. It disrupts the healthy organisation of the entire physiological body and body-mind (and from there to families, communities and entire societies) - by creating pockets of overwhelm that are frozen in time, still attempting to deal with life-threatening emergencies that happened in the past. These pockets (or fragments) co-exist within the rest of the body-mind that is (ideally) better calibrated to its immediate environment – but they also tend to make the rest of the body mind have difficulty in fully calibrating itself to real levels of immediate safety. This fractured, fragmented state is far less efficient in the task of self-regulation, which in turn causes:
These effects have increasingly tended to reinforce themselves through societal violence and through other societal patterns, behaviours, expectations and institutions – all of which have grown out of endemic activation and empathic numbness. The continuous accumulation of wealth and the "growth economy" (including usury) is itself a violent act if one looks at the degradation of human life and environment that inevitably underlies it. But it too has become normalised through a collective dissociative numbness. Even small wealth-accumulators (pensioners such as myself relying on income from an invested pension fund) are happy being unaware of the ways their investment is being used or the unsustainable exploitation of natural resources that underpins it to return an interest on invested capital. Such as cash crops irrigated by water "mined" from reserves that are irreplaceable - because they fell as rain tens of thousands of years ago.
This cycle of "overshoot" is not a new one and its origins go back to well before the Roman Empire. Neither is it unique to European or Western culture – so the climate on the Eastern edge of the Kalahari was already made much drier by human deforestation only 100 or so years before Europeans settled Southern Africa. As a society we are all, as individuals, stuck like flies in its demonic logic. If we are to become healthy as an entire society, and the entire Earth is to return to health as a bio-geological homeostatic organism, there has to be some change in the tokenised money system and attitudes towards wealth. And that will really only happen as one person at a time becomes less dissociated and as a consequence regains more embodied, lived, somatically experienced empathy with the Living world.
In my work with the defendants at the Nuremberg Trials 1945-1949 I was searching for the nature of evil and I now think I have come close to defining it. A lack of empathy. It’s the one characteristic that connects all the defendants, a genuine incapacity to feel with their fellow men. Evil, I think, is the absence of empathy.
Captain G. M. Gilbert, US Army psychologist
As a society, if not empathically numb then we particularly tend to focus on what is "wrong" so that we can fix it – a pathology-oriented, survival-driven way of seeing. And if you can appreciate the irony, in describing the "problem" (so we can "fix it") - this is exactly what I have done in the above few pages[16].
References & Notes
1 Amanda MacMillan (November 29, 2017) Prehistoric Women Had Stronger Arms Than Competitive Rowers Today. https://time.com/5041744/prehistoric-women-arm-strength-bones/ and in general bone strength has diminished since human populations increased to the point that we stopped being hunter-gatherers and started farming Editorial (Dec 22, 2014) Our Weaker Bones a Recent Evolutionary Development, Say Researchers. Popular Archaeology https://popular-archaeology.com/article/our-weaker-bones-a-recent-evolutionary-development-say-researchers/
2 One example of this is the modern swing to soft processed foods. The human facial structure is quite unique in the way that it hangs off the front of the cranium instead of being integrated into it – a development that has probably allowed for the vault to expand and the parietal bones to become thinner as the forces exerted on them by the temporalis have reduced. This reduction in use (as we became more dependent on hands and tools (including cooking) and less dependent on teeth is probably integral to our development of a musculoskeletal system more suited to long distance endurance running. However, heavy jaw action is still required to form the face (see "form follows function, function follows form", later), widening it, making t=room for the teeth and flexing it daily so as to maintain lymphatic flow and eye socket geometry. So without that heavy usage of the chewing muscles the modern Western human is afflicted with tooth crowding and astigmatisms. Facial structure is far more open in societies that still chew neem sticks for dental care and/or eat tougher foods.
3 Miller, Jennifer Jane (1997) An archaeobotanical investigation of Oakbank crannog, a prehistoric lake dwelling in Loch Tay, the Scottish Highlands. PhD thesis, University of Glasgow. https://theses.gla.ac.uk/2169/
4 Wibowo, M.C., Yang, Z., Borry, M. et al. Reconstruction of ancient microbial genomes from the human gut. Nature 594 , 234–239 (2021). https://doi.org/10.1038/ - analysis of archaeological remains shows human palaeo-microbiomes contained 39% of species not seen in modern humans.
5 Although this study is of horses, the implications are also relevant to humans – early life gut microbiome health and diversity is a direct predictor of adult health : Leng, J., Moller-Levet, C., Mansergh, R.I. et al. Early-life gut bacterial community structure predicts disease risk and athletic performance in horses bred for racing. Sci Rep 14, 17124 (2024). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-024-64657-6
6 Even caterpillars get stressed with nose. Just because we can adapt and normalise to it doesn’t make it innocuous. see Davis Andrew K., Schroeder Hayley, Yeager Ian and Pearce Jana (2018) Effects of simulated highway noise on heart rates of larval monarch butterflies, Danaus plexippus: implications for roadside habitat suitability. Biol. Lett. 1420180018 http://doi.org/10.1098/rsbl.2018.0018
7 Effect of air pollution on the human immune system. Nat Med 28, 2482–2483 (2022). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41591-022-02093-7
8 Hotsur, O., Danylina, O., Zozulia, N., Stiekolshchykova, V., Porpulit, O., & Danko-Sliptsova, A. (2023). How does Information Manipulation Interfere with Normal Brain Function? The Disruption of Neuroethics in War-Time Mass Media. BRAIN. Broad Research in Artificial Intelligence and Neuroscience, 14(3), 224-240. https://doi.org/10.18662/brain/14.3/472
9 Iain McGilchrist (2012) The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World. Yale University Press; 2nd edition ISBN-13 : 978-0300188370
10 Darcia Narvaez (2014) Neurobiology and the Development of Human Morals: Evolution, Culture, and Wisdom (Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology). W. W. Norton & Company ISBN-13: 978-0393706550
11Yehuda, R., & Lehrner, A. (2018). Intergenerational transmission of trauma effects: putative role of epigenetic mechanisms. World psychiatry : official journal of the World Psychiatric Association (WPA) , 17(3), 243–257. https://doi.org/10.1002/wps.20568 and Rachel Yehuda (2022) How Parents’ Trauma Leaves Biological Traces in Children: Adverse experiences can change future generations through epigenetic pathways. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-parents-rsquo-trauma-leaves-biological-traces-in-children/
12 Kostova Z and Matanova VL (2024) Transgenerational trauma and attachment. Front. Psychol. 15:1362561. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2024.1362561
13 Strauß, H., Venables, P., & Zentner, M. (2023). Associations between early childhood poverty and cognitive functioning throughout childhood and adolescence: A 14-year prospective longitudinal analysis of the Mauritius Child Health Project. PloS one, 18(2), e0278618. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0278618 and Anandi Mani, Sendhil Mullainathan , Eldar Shafir , & Jiaying Zhao (2013) Poverty Impedes Cognitive Function. Science 341 (6149) pp. 976-980 DOI: 10.1126/science.1238041
References & Notes
14 https://kfoundation.org/it-is-no-measure-of-health-to-be-well-adjusted-to-a-profoundly-sick-society/
15Robert Scaer (2014) The Body Bears the Burden: Trauma, Dissociation, and Disease. Publ. Routledge; 3rd edition ISBN-13: 978-0415641524
16If the whole book were truly written from a perspective of health, the "how it goes wrong" would have been restricted to a relatively small section at the end of the book. But then most people reading it would have no context with which to understand the meaning of much of the content.